When does it get easier I wonder ?

So she went ! along with all my ( our ) friends .... that hurt so much ( and still does) , it seemed like when she left all my friends (and I really thought I had some very good and close friends)didnt contact me or invite me round any more or even phone for a chat ! I didnt and still dont want sympathy , but it would have been nice to know they were concerned as most of these friendships ( fake friendships) were quite long term .. we had been through lots of things together good times and bad times for lots of us, but with friends you get through these times. All of a sudden I realised its a very lonesome battle. I guess it just goes to show there arent many people you can really trust and rely upon in this world.I do have friends who are MY friends who dont know my ex wife apart from what they know of her through me , and they have been very supportive,
Family are very important ... they are always there for you and i guess tend to be biased ( but I have seen family , not mine, take sides in these situations)My family have been very supportive even ones who I havent been so close with have rallied round to offer me whatever they could and it was greatly accepted.
I do not recomend this situation to anyone ! People have said it gets easier with time ... a bit like grieving for someone they say.. well I guess I will have to wait and see. They say take one day at a time ... well its been a lot of days now and i guess when I know what direction to aim for things will change .